One piece of advice I could give for the reception is to just go with the flow. Generally I'd say have that attitude on your wedding day and you'll enjoy it so much more. Especially with things like the clinking of glasses & kissing thing. (I know it gets annoying after about the third person but it does make for some cute photos.)
At this wedding in particular the brides dress wasn't bustled yet so her father held it while she danced with her father-in-law. It was so adorable but definitely a go with the flow kinda moment.